I run into this problem every year at this time. I have an aunt, 2 uncles and 2 cousins that we see on Christmas. My cousins are now married (not to each other) with children. I'm tempted to get gift cards for the cousins and toys for their babies. But I am getting actual presents for my aunt and uncles. Is it weird to get gift cards for some adults and actual presents for others? I just feel like the people who will just get gift cards will feel cheated when other people get presents. I usually end up getting presents for everyone but it's so stressful. Edited to add I should probably say that my mother passed away in June, and this is her side of the family-so maybe I should do something nice for everyone? I dunno.