♡ (jamesdean) wrote in thequestionclub,


If you had feelings for a good friend of yours and you thought they might be reciprocaed would you vocalize your feelings? Or would you keep them to yourself hoping they would say something first? Or would you keep it to yourself to avoid ruining a good friendship?

In short I like my coworker and I feel like he may potentially like me too but he's getting over a break-up and he's been kind of up and down and I know he probably feels a spark between us because we're basically inseprable at work but he's never really made a move. I want to tell him how I feel, just so he knows for sure, but I'm terrified it'll ruin our friendship and I know people always say if a guy likes you, you'll know it, etc etc but I just can't tell with him. I know if I say something first and he doesn't feel the same way it's going to ruin our friendship and that's what scares me the most.

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