Vanity Asphyxia (vanityasavirtue) wrote in thequestionclub,
Vanity Asphyxia

Is this guy into me or am I just paranoid?

Ok so I've been out of the dating game for over 5 years. And the last time I was I was 22 when people acted differently than they do at a more mature 27-ish.... And I was never good at telling when people liked me before so I'm really clueless now.

So I have this friend who is a male and he has been acting.... different toward me lately. I am a hugger. So I hug people hello and goodbye. And when I get to this friend to hug goodbye he definitely holds the hug longer than a standard goodbye hug. Like I'll go to pull away and he pulls me back in for a few more seconds. Then the other night I was sitting when he left so we did like a high-five, but instead of just a slap he kind of held his hand against my hand for about 5 seconds. These things seem strange to me. I'm not sure if he's just a feely guy or if this is some kind of subtle flirting?

Thing is I'm in a relationship. And so is he! So if this is a flirting thing I want to shut it down, but if it's not I don't want to feel like an idiot by saying something about it.

So guys and gals what do you think, flirting or am I paranoid?
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