You're facebook friends with your ex. It's been EONS since you were together, but you're FB friends nonetheless. You speak to him/her MAYBE once every 3 years.
Today they write: Having a hard time holding on.
And further comment: Having a real hard time with life right now.
What do you do?
This is happening right now and I felt this urge to just get up and call him to see that he's okay.
But I feel a little ridiculous. He's not in my life anymore and he has friends that he can go to.
Would you even contemplate messaging or calling?