aamo (aamo) wrote in thequestionclub,

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Online dating advice

Hey Guys

So I've recently entered the realm of online dating. I have had a lot of replies in the past week, more than I can keep up with. But there is one guy that seems right up my alley, and I'm focusing more on him than the rest. Partly because he was one of the first to reach out. I realise it's stupid to put all your eggs in one basket - i.e. what if we go on a date and its a bust? But I don't have the time or the personality to flirt with multiple guys online. I'm a one man at a time kinda girl lol.

But the other guys since guy #1 seem decent and interesting also. I don't want to stuff them around, but I don't want them to think I'm not interested. Should I just get over my scruples and talk to as many guys as possible (which sounds exhausting tbh)? Or take the one-by-one approach (slow and possibly self-defeating)?

I would love to hear what works for those of you that use the internet to find ~love. Tips/advice/stories welcome (God knows at this stage I'm not comfortable talking to my friends about it. The stigma is real!)
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