TQC, I need halp. I live with an awful roommate. She is never quiet. NEVER. She is constantly screaming into her phone everywhere in the apartment. She would steal my clothes (when I went to the bathroom and would leave my bedroom door open so now I shut it which is ridiculous to know I have to shut my door for 2 minutes while I go pee), she stole food until I got a fridge in my room (illegally, since residence wouldn't give me one since they ran out but I needed one). She steals toilet paper from my bathroom (our apartment has two bathrooms), toothpaste, and basically all my shower shit so everything I have to keep in my bedroom locked. She never pees with the door shut and wears pants/underwear so she flashes her hairy box more than a porno. And whenever I'm in the kitchen or just in my room with the door open she just fucking stares at me. Like comes as close as she can and just fucking stares at me. She leaves food rotting on our counter for days, as well as dishes.
We have complained to our RA, and the head of the residence person multiple times now about it. We've tried to mediate and set ground rules but nothing sticks. Now the RA and head of residence lady are telling us there is nothing that they can do. They've tried to talk to her but she doesn't listen so there's no point in them being involved anymore. WHAT THE HELL. Maybe its your job.
TQC, who can we go to about this so something is done? Should I start leaving my bedroom door open again when I go pee so she steals my clothes and I call the police? I seriously fucking cannot stand her, but I refuse to be the one who moves out when I'm not the one being a fucking ass hole.