__she__rains (__she__rains) wrote in thequestionclub,

What's the best way to communicate to a guy that he doesn't need to feel nervous around you?
Ive been acquaintances with this guy for over a year and we recently started dating. He's opened up to me about a lot of things in his past already, like his dad dying when he was 14 & his wife cheating on him while he was in the military, so I understand why he's a little quieter than most guys I usually go for. But it's been bothering me that it feels like he doesn't feel fully comfortable around me as I am with him when we hang out. I think may be nerves still because he's really into me. But my question is how can I tell him he doesn't need to be without crushing his ego or embarrassing him??
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