plasmic_slime (plasmic_slime) wrote in thequestionclub,
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I stay at my boyfriend's most nights of the week. He has two (pretty chilled) roommates who he told I would stay round often when he moved in. No one has said anything and boyfriend insists everyone is cool with it, but I feel very guilty staying there so often, especially when he can't stay at mine (I share a room and am not allowed guests after 1am).
I'm only really there from 10pm to when I leave for work at about 9am. It used to be the case I was never there when he wasn't, but he leaves for work at 4am so the past couple of weeks I leave after him.
Should I be feeling as uncomfortable about this as I do? I've seen so many posts on TQC about semi-resident partners I feel guilty. Or should I just wait till someone says something to address it? (I kind of feel like if I make myself valuable they won't be so bothered - cooking/cleaning etc)
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