Kimber (chesterismyhero) wrote in thequestionclub,

love? idk

oh jeez....tqc....until recently, I've been single for the better part of 3 years (separated from ex husband in June 2010, divorced in November 2011).


I've had 3 other relationships not including my current one since my exhusband and I split. the 3 previous relationships ended around the 1 month point (found out 2 were cheating...the 3rd wasnt kid friendly like he said he was)


anyway, I've recently hit the one month mark with my new guy. I honestly don't know how I got so lucky. It seems like he's better for me than anyone else has been.


ok....with that random back story....I think that I could love this guy. but how soon is too soon to let him know? I don't want to jinx it or scare him off. (he's in the process of a long, messy divorce from his ex. I'm not the rebound from that relationship. he's dated 4 or 5 women since he and his ex split a long time ago)


for those of you in relationships, how long did it take before you fell in love? how long did you wait before telling your SO?


I'm all awkward with this stuff. :( the ex husband and I were together from the time I was 15 until right before I turned 26. I'm 29 now. (boyfriend is 32...not so relevant, I know.)


dk/dc how's the weather? Southern Illinois is nice right now...I have my bedroom window open. they're calling for a winter storm tomorrow into Friday. ugh...damn weather!

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