puttana (mayfair) wrote in thequestionclub,

I need help helping!

My best friend is dealing with a LOT. I won't get too into it, but at 25 she's taking care of both of her parents who are pretty sick, her teenaged nephew, plus herself, boyfriend, and 4 dogs. And she works full time. Her mom is constantly in and out of the hospital and when she's home, my friend is home with her, doing all of the cooking and the cleaning.

I need to do something for her, as she's falling apart and I feel like a nervous breakdown is upon us, but it's hard because I have NO money. Everything I can think of (hiring someone to clean the house, buying some food for them or buying food to cook for them, etc.) costs money. All I can offer her is my support and company but I want to do more.

Any ideas as to what I could do for her? I'm trying to think of something creative but I'm failing miserably.
  • Post a new comment


    Comments allowed for members only

    Anonymous comments are disabled in this journal

    default userpic

    Your reply will be screened

    Your IP address will be recorded