puttana (mayfair) wrote in thequestionclub,

You've been talking to someone online for a few months and they claim to really like you. You talk on the phone, you flirt constantly, and the "l" word has even slipped out a few times.

But they have a terrible habit of not texting first. It's always you who initiates the conversation. This person knows that you're insecure and that not hearing from them makes you think something's wrong. You've explained this to them before and they always say they're going to try harder. It's been 3 days since you've heard from them (and you usually text every day). Should I give in and text first or just wait it out? For me, (and I know it's wrong) I feel like not hearing from them automatically means they're not thinking about me and I just get all depressed.
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