there's a guy I've been seeing 2-3 times a week for the past month and 1/2. we're just friends with benefits, which is fine with me as neither of us want a relationship right now. we both see other people and I'm cool with that, but I've found that lately when he tells me about other girls I get a pang of jealousy. I guess this means I am developing feelings for him, despite my efforts not to :(
I'm torn on if I should tell him something like "hey I'm cool with us not being exclusive, but I don't really want to hear about other girls you're seeing". I don't want to ruin what we have now, and I also don't want him to feel like he can't confide in me as we consider each other friends. but.. I also can't shut off how I feel.