The New Bubble Girl (banyangirl1832) wrote in thequestionclub,
The New Bubble Girl
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TQC, family drama ahead.

My SO and his brothers are planning an intervention for their mom, who's battling depression but refuses to seek help. On Saturday, one of his brothers and his girlfriend (M and D) called my SO. I was in the room when he took the call, and we were chatting a bit with them on speaker. At some point shortly thereafter, M said, "Could we have a private conversation, S?" and asked me to leave the room. I was confused but did as he asked, and twenty minutes of wondering, "What the hell are they talking about up there?" I found out that they were planning this intervention. I don't blame my SO at all - he had no idea what he was about to walk into, as M was pitching the idea of the intervention to him for the first time during this conversation. But it really made me feel excluded, angry and hurt. My SO and I have been together for well over two years, and D, M's SO, was on the phone and privy to the conversation, so I don't understand why I wasn't allowed to be. Would you bring it up as a discussion point at some point in the future, or would you just let it go?
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