I also started seeing someone seriously and that person and I are now engaged and we're making wedding plans. For pictures, I immediately thought of Sarah as she is a good photographer who is working on building a photography business. Without thinking about it, I asked Sarah if she'd like to do our photos and she replied "I was hoping you'd ask! :D :D :D :D :D"
It has since occurred to me that most of my friends (groomsmen) probably know that Sarah and I were shagging for a while.
So.... is this a bad idea? My fiance knows that Sarah and I are friends, but should I let her know how far that friendship went to see if she's still comfortable with Sarah doing the pictures? Should I ask my friends if they think it's weird?
I mean, if the roles were reversed, it wouldn't bother me unless the two were flirting.