plasmic_slime (plasmic_slime) wrote in thequestionclub,

I am in one big love pickle.
I've been with an amazing guy who I just connect with for about 2 months. He is American, I am British. I am living here till next May. He has been offered a job in Singapore for 6 months, leaving in less than 2 weeks. He says he's going to marry me, wants to settle down with me, come back to the UK with me etc when the time comes. However i'm terrified of the thought of a LDR especially with someone I have only been with for such a short time. The thought of not being with him/him not being here terrifies me. Him not going is not an option, however much he says if I really insist/won't give things a try he won't go, it's too good an opportunity and he's not happy here. I have no idea what to do other than to just see how things go, however every time I think of him leaving it makes me want to crawl into a ball and howl. Whilst 6 months doesn't seem like a long time, the circumstances make it more difficult.
WWTQCD? Any advice?
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