Bloody Bitch (o0okireo0o) wrote in thequestionclub,
Bloody Bitch
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Marriage

An earlier post made me want to post this. I am not doing this to start a flame war, which is why I tend to keep my opinions about it to myself. If you are/want to be married I mean absolutely no offense, this is just how I feel.

Does anyone else not want to get married? I don't mean not date/not have a long time relationship, I mean have no desire to make the relationship legally/in the eyes of god official? Do you find the idea of marriage kinda lame? Ever notice how weddings are basically cookie cutter with slight variations? Anyone else think that the most important thing in a woman's life shouldn't be to find a perfect white dress? What about people who break up, because while they love them enough to be married, they don't love them enough to not?

My feelings on this remind me of childfree people and parents. I have been told I'm a 'woman of the night', that I want to cheat on my boyfriend, that I don't want a relationship because I have no desire what so ever to be married. I guess we're technically common-law, we bought a house together, we got fish together. I have no desire and would probably freak the hell out if he proposed (he knows this). I don't have a ring, or a dress or a ceremony. I just want to know if I am the only one.

Again, if you are married or want to, I mean no offense. I am not saying people shouldn't get married or anything against you folks for being married. This is only my opinion.
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