Kat (atheistkathleen) wrote in thequestionclub,
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what should i say to my aunt about not going to my cousin's bridal shower?

at first i Rsvp'd that i'd go but when i asked if my daughter could go she said that kids weren't allowed...except for the two and three year olds on the fiance's side and her best friends' little daughters so if i couldn't find a sitter then sure bring my 11 year old, but otherwise "no kids"

i don't want to go anymore. i feel like if my daughter isn't welcome then i don't want to be there either...should i just say that "something came up and i can't make it" but send a gift? am i being weird?

-the same thing happened for her baby shower, they told me "no kids" but then when i went there, there were like 6 two year olds. my daughter is older and well behaved so idgi. the parties are always in their backyard its not like they're paying for a plate somewhere.
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