smokeswirls (smokeswirls) wrote in thequestionclub,
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My friend and I signed up for OkCupid together. She started seeing a guy about two months ago, and in the beginning, he seemed great. He was polite, proactive about setting up dates, would always end the date suggesting that they see each other again on a specific day, etc. After 4 dates or so, she went over to his place to watch a movie, they made out, but she said she wasn't ready to go any further than that. He seemed fairly understanding, but after that night, he started getting distant and contacted her a lot less.

Basically, it's become obvious that he lost interest because she didn't put out. However, she's convinced that he's been pulling away because he's going through an uncertainty phase.

Last night, guess who contacts me on OkCupid? Yup.
This has confirmed that he's lost interest in my friend and that he's still shopping around for other women. Should I tell my friend that he sent me a message or should I not say anything and just tell her that she should just move on?

Edit: I don't know if this was unclear, but this guy does NOT know that my friend and I are friends.
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