Kimber (chesterismyhero) wrote in thequestionclub,

To make a long story very short, my dad has completely changed since he broke his leg and found out my mom was cheating on him.
Meaning he used to never take meds and now he's got some issues and he's dating a girl younger than me (he just turned 49. I'm 28)

He has a good job. Makes good money and his bills are very few and not expensive

Yet every week, he's hitting up me or my sisters for money. I don't give it to him, but he constantly guilt trips me. Or my sisters give it to him and then they come ask me for money for themselves.

Am I douchey for not helping him out? I make less than everyone else and I have 2 kids to take care of. But they try to make me feel I'm obligated to help him even if it'll make me broke.

What do you think he's blowing his money on? (Serious and not serious answers are welcome)

Should I sit him down and be like wtf dad? He's not one for talking, so idk if that would work.

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