loveandbees (loveandbees) wrote in thequestionclub,
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1. How would you react if you told your SO that you had done them a small favour, and instead of being thanked, they got slightly cross with you?

My boyfriend texted me to say that he had booked my shifts at work for me, and I responded with 'thank you, but I can do that myself x' I think I am annoyed for the following reasons: Firstly, I feel embarrassed and uncomfortable when people do nice things for me, however small. Secondly, he constantly offers me lifts home et cetera, despite us living fairly far away from each other, and I (possibly irrationally) feel that he thinks I can't cope by myself.
Am I being a bitch?

2. How reputable do you think the Open University is? I recently realised that I really do not want to go to university anymore, but I really do want a degree. Considering the fact that one needs no qualifications to get in, I am not sure just how much the degree is worth.


ETA: Sorry I did not explain properly - he texted saying 'what is your availability for next week? Is Monday Wednesday Friday alright?' I said 'that's fine, but why are you booking my shifts?' He said 'because I'm nice lol.' I said 'thank you. I can do it myself, though.'
I suppose it just felt a little smothering.

Open University is a distance learning course in the UK.
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