Taking her with us now changes any plans I had of seeing my family for Thanksgiving because there is no way in Hell I could take her to my familes houses. My family are all older and some are disabled in one way or another.
I told my bf that I rather not go to Thanksgiving if we have to take her with us. I feel that if her parents want her to go to NY they should bring her up themselves and not burden us with having to take her.
Should I lie, and politely tell her parents we don't have room for her in the truck ?
Should I just stay home and do my own thing?
Should I suck it up and try not to be miserable while i'm around the little shit?