my gf wants us to go to a rave on saturday night with some random girl she just started working with. i'm honestly uncomfortable with the idea. none of us who are going have ever been to one and i'm not sure what to expect. i've heard basically a lot of drugs, sex, dancing, grinding, etc. she wants us to take molly and roll face while we're there.. and she's told me she's going with or without me, because she promised this new friend of hers she would go with her. she wants me to come, but idk. on one hand, i want to be there because i'm scared of what could happen to her if she goes with some random who doesn't really care about her well-being, but on the other hand, i don't really want to go. i just keep having these sick images of horny shirtless bros trying to feel and grind on my gf and i wanna vomit. i trust her, just not other people. i'm more concerned about her safety than anything else. if it helps, we're both girls, i'm 25 and she's 21.
what should i do? give it to me straight.. talk some sense into my overly-analytic mind.