You are 19 and sitting in a busy bar late at night with two friends (let's say they both identify as female). At a table opposite you, with her back to you and your friends, sits a very attractive young woman. She is wearing a white, see-through cropped top displaying her back and stomach, as well as low-cut jeans. She is shifting a lot in her chair and playing with her long, blonde hair as she speaks to her two male friends, and you can see that she's getting a lot of attention from the large table of guys seated behind her, who are getting rather "excited" by the sight of her bare back and talking amongst themselves about her.
Your friends immediately express their anger at the woman. One of them says "If only she'd stop sitting like that and actually had some personality.." the other tells you that she finds the woman's behaviour "Annoying". Bear in mind that neither you nor your friends can see this girl's face, never mind hear what she is saying over the background music.
- what would you think of this very angry reaction from your two female friends?
- how would you react?
- would you think the way the woman dressed and sat was in any way "wrong"? why/why not?