Your SO invited you to lunch at a new restaurant. He/she gives you the directions how to get there. As you're approaching the building, you realize that it's not a restaurant at all, but the studio for the Maury Povich show. You doublecheck the address. Yep. This is the place your SO invited you to without revealing what the place really was beforehand. What do you do?
Maury Maury quite contrary
Go ahead and enter the studio and see what my SO...and possibly Maury...have in store for me
Turn around and go somewhere else. No way I'm going on that show
Text/call my SO. "Um...are you really inviting me on the Maury show?" Leave if he/she says yes
Same as above, except I go on the show if my SO says yes, but only if my SO tells me
What's this bullshit? I break up with my SO while still in my car outside the studio. If he/she indeed invited me on the show, there's no way this was going to work out.