cinnabun11 (cinnabun11) wrote in thequestionclub,

So I was at a club with some friends and my drunk guy friend "came out" to me. I was kind of confused because he's regularly hooking up with this girl and flirts with girls a lot so when he said it I honestly thought he was kidding around with me. But after that he kept pleading to me not to tell a single soul and that he didn't know why he was telling me he was gay etc. He said all he wanted to do was go dance with this other guy friend we have (which he was doing earlier in the night "jokingly").
Turns out that he was so drunk that he doesn't remember what we talked about. We sent a few texts that night in which I said I wouldn't tell anybody what he told me. Today he asked me what we talked about because he says he doesn't remember. I don't know what to say to him. I don't want to tell him he told me he's gay in case he really didn't want it to get out so I'm considering telling him that I don't remember either. On the other hand I considered telling him the truth and talking to him about it because he said I was the first person he's ever told.

What would you do? What do you think of the situation?
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