I am Jacks Smirking Revenge (foggyeiffel) wrote in thequestionclub,
I am Jacks Smirking Revenge

Anyone wanna help me with my relationship drama?

I've been with Drew for 6 months. In those 6 months we fell in love, I had a baby (not his, obviously), talked about moving in together, he met my ENTIRE family at my sisters wedding, I met his family (never had to do that before), we celebrated my birthday together (never done that with anyone but my family), we looked at engagement rings, he told me "for all intents and purposes, we're engaged.", I spent almost every weekend with him for those 6 months and this past week I spent Christmas day to New Years Day with him. My son came down on Wednesday (my dad brought him down) and we had a good week.

Except. He is lazy. Lazy lazy lazy. I asked him to take out the garbage on his way to work on Wednesday, he grumbled and eventually said Okay. It never happened. I asked him to help me with the dishes. He complained until I just said fine, I'll do it myself.
I wanted to make Riley cereal but I needed a bowl. He was playing Arkham Asylum so I figure ask him. I said "Hey babe, can you grab me a bowl. You might have to wash one." He complained, got up and washed a bowl and spoon. When I got the bowl, I had to get up and re-wash it. He also snores like a freight train meeting a convoy of semis all next to 10,000 teapots whistling.

Enter Riley's Father.

Things between us have been quite the roller coaster. Things right now are okay. He loves me, loves Riley, Riley gets sad when he leaves (he's just like.."oh..that guys gone" when Drew leaves.). But things between Tim and I are really rocky. When I told him I was pregnant last year, he not only freaked out but turned into a complete asshole. I understand now that it was probably the worst time possible to get pregnant and all that crap, but it's not like we did it on purpose. He's been in anger management (he's not physically angry, just verbally.) and it's working. He's finally getting his life on track.

This has all come to a head today. And on top of all that, Drew lost his job today. Tim is out of work for an injury, but should be going back relatively soon.

What would you do?

Riley is 3 and a half months old, if that matters.

dk/dc/no I won't, whore

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