K (csandiegooo) wrote in thequestionclub,

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What in allah's name am I supposed to do about this?

Context: High school seniors, do not attend same high school, work at the same place.
The Guy: Has never been in a relationship/dated before. Very modest dude.
Status of relationship: Have been on one date, no form of physical interaction.

(setting: work)
Boy: I like you, but we're not on the same page. You have made your feelings clear, but I am not sure how much I like you...yet. I'm not as clueless as I seemed, but I kind of acted that way to see what you would do.
Me: Okay, I get it. I know you were under a lot of pressure from your teammates and stuff to ask me out, so I understand. Thanks for being honest.

*I am hurt so I give him the cold shoulder for the rest of the night, up until I am about to leave*

Me: Look, you hurt my feelings. You made me feel like an idiot for thinking we were on the same page. I get how it is, though. I'll get over it.
Boy: No, but I like you! I didn't want to hurt your feelings. I like you! *awkwardly goes in for hug*
Me: Um...*sort of side-hugs* see you later.

What does this mean? What is a girl to do? And most importantly, how do I act the next time I see him?
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