You are newly moved in to a house. You decide one night to utilise your humble BBQ grill to prepare yourself some dinner. While cooking this dinner-for-one, someone over the fence greets you with the 'friendly' information that "Around here, when we have a BBQ, we invite the neighbours." Immediately, there are many responses you want to give, but can only give one. What do you say to this neighbour, bearing in mind that any response can impact you and/or your neighbour in the short and/or long-term?