A really good friend of mine has a habit of getting angry/sad about a given situation and then not wanting to take steps to fix it, even if the steps are really easy and she knows that she'd cheer up afterward. I try to be patient with her and just let her vent, but I'm naturally a fixer and want to see her more cheerful, and when I propose solutions she just says things like, "No, it's fine, I'll just keep things the way they are." Would this annoy you?
DK/DC: Have you seen Once Upon a Time? I'm really digging the two episodes I've seen so far!