what should i do for my 21st bday that is coming up in the next month? i want to do something big like ive never done before. im not sure if im going to drink or not yet but im inviting around 10 people i want to hang out with. half of them drink the other half are straight edge. some are good friends with each other, some never met. im really worried about everyone having a good time, i want everyone to have fun and not feel awkward.