I've seen my grandmother maybe two or three times in the last five years. Now she is dying, and I got a call from an aunt saying my grandmother wants me to come by to get this gift she wants to give me before she passes.
This is really awkward and uncomfortable for me. I love her of course, I do want to see her before she passes, but I don't know how to handle this situation. I've always been really, really uncomfortable and unwilling to visit people that I know are dying - I know this is a selfish sentiment, but I just... I don't know. It's a scary thing.
Will you tell me about times you've visited dying friends/relatives? Or reconnected with relatives you haven't seen in a while? Tell me reassuring things to help me do this? Cute kitty pics?