Sabrina. (ahiddenbird) wrote in thequestionclub,
Sabrina.
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Do you have a lot of friends? Are you good in social situations? Do you make friends easily? Are you ever afraid others will think you're boring?

Would you find it weird if someone you didn't know that well called you up and asked you to hang out?

I'm 27 and I only have 2 proper friends, one of which I hardly see. I feel awfully pathetic sometimes but I find it really hard to make friends. I know a few girls casually that I think I'd like to be friends with, but I don't feel like I know them well enough to just call them up out of the blue and say "hey, wanna hang out?". Plus, it seems like everyone else already has a set group of friends and doesn't need more. I feel like I have this barrier in my head when it comes to social interactions, like I can never get it quite right. I don't often seem to be able to get past small talk. I think a big part of the problem is that naturally I want to be friends with smart, interesting, fun people, but I'm often intimidated by them at the same time.

I think I'm feeling a little down on myself for spending yet another Friday night at home on my sofa :P
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