But she's not very outspoken and she frequently lets people walk all over her, so she sometimes doesn't tell me things because she thinks I'll be upset. Today she told me my typing keeps her awake. It's November. I stay up later than her almost every night, typing, and we've been living together since August.
How can I convince her that I want to know when I'm doing something that's frustrating her or that she just doesn't like? This isn't the first time it's happened and it frustrates me when I find out from other friends, especially when it's an easy fix like this one (we have a living room I can go into after she goes to bed) and I want us to still be friends after we graduate.