so ive fallen in love with a man who is 50, im 20. hes honestly the most beautiful person ive ever met in my life. hes not conventionally attractive, but we have this connection. he says he likes me to but hes very set in his ways he says and not looking for a relationship but if he was it would be me and that it could happen to but not to get my hopes up but he wants to stay best friends for now. he is very insecure about himself he thinks hes not good looking, he thinks because hes overweight its disgusting. how do i show him that this is not true?