smallspokes (smallspokes) wrote in thequestionclub,
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Alright TCQ, serious questions time. I've been in a great relationship since my freshman year of college. I'm independent and confident in myself (so is he), making our relationship sturdy and realistic. We've dealt with short long-distance situations well, have great communication skills, etc etc. I love him.

Here's the deal. We both just graduated from college and went separate ways: me to a dream job in a great city with friends, him to a seasonal position in a small town with his closest friends, staying for free at his parent's rental. Swag. So we're long distance now, with no cemented plans for the future (but lots of ideas).

Here's the second deal. While I've been granted with a fantastic relationship, I never got the promiscuous college years out of my way. I still have the urge to be with a few other guys before getting super serious, and being in a new city with new boys, I'm tempted. But then I'm like WHAAAAT you have a great relationship/boy that I could be with forever... be happy!

I'm pretty sure a "open relationship" is out of the question. Way too tricky and kind of stupid. Would it be wise to take a break while we're apart to jump back into the game? Or would that threaten my potentially long long term relationship? GAH. HELP.
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