. (tetaelzbieta) wrote in thequestionclub,

I'm sorry, I feel like this gets asked a lot but I need some ears and some advice.

How do you make the decision to euthanize your pet? I am trying so hard to be logical and unselfish about it but I am sick and heartbroken and many other miserable adjectives. This stupid cat is such a huge part of my heart. I think about coming home without her here, and already it's got me in tears and we haven't even made any decisions yet. She has cancer and we have the option to do another surgery, but it would be her third in a year. She has never shown signs of suffering before but now she's lost weight, has completely redrawn and is obviously in pain.

If you've had to euthanize a pet, under what circumstances? Were you there with them when it happened? What was your grieving process like? I know there's no way to really prepare, I just want to talk to as many people as possible about the process and have definitely exhausted all my irl friends. I just don't even know what to do with myself :/
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