researchme (researchme) wrote in thequestionclub,

Okay, so I asked this question before and I didnt get many responses and  know its ridiculous, but you guys seriously have to tell me what to do.

Okay backstory:
I went to someones house 3-4 weekends in a row.  (they live 2 hours away so I stay there the entire weekend) last weekend I didn't go up, they didnt invite me/i had car trouble, and I really feel super awkward inviting myself/or assuming they want me to come.

They have been saying stuff like "the next time youre here....." and they mentioned that someone invited us to go paintballing this weekend but they cant go bc they have a class/dentist appt.

How do I "find out" if they want me to visit them this weekend without self-inviting myself/making them feel obligated to say "yeah sure come up?"

I reeeeally dont want to self invite myself, but at the same time I dont know if they are just waiting for me to mention something/ask.  They are a big game player sometimes.

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