Melissa (shechoselove) wrote in thequestionclub,

You are in a monogamous relationship. Next year you plan on making a significant lifestyle change that would require moving (whether to another city or out of state). Your SO is still at a community college and is unsure about his/her future plans (e.g., to where s/he wants to transfer, or even when s/he is going to transfer). S/he has expressed interest in coordinating your futures (whether by finding a college in the area where you'll be moving or otherwise), but, to your knowledge, has not followed through with this. And while you don't necessarily want to go the long-distance route, you can't sit around and wait for him/her to decide.

What would you do? Would you strive harder to coordinate your future plans at this point? Has anyone been in a similar situation?
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