Do you ever get the thing where you want to ask something, and it's a big something, and it's really a very important something, but. There isn't an actual answer to your question that would help you, you're just asking for the sake of having others consider the predicament you're in. You want answers, because they won't half make you feel validated. So you suggest a scenario, and it helps when you get replies, but at the same time you know it's not actually remotely related to yourself or your questions? And all you're doing is dancing about issues, and looking for validation in places that will never legitimately give you it, but at least you feel better in the short term?