Stella (star_angel22) wrote in thequestionclub,
Stella
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Is anyone else really quick to say you aren't mad at people, even when you still are?

How about with one particular person?

What do you do when they continue to do the same things to piss you off, because they dont ever experience any negative consequences so therefore they never learn?



I am like this with my mom. I hate being in fights with anyone, but I cannot stand to be mad at my mom for any length of time. She consistantly does things that she knows will anger me, but I hate being mad at her so I always drop the issue just to keep the peace. Since she is never 'punished', she keeps doing the same things over and over and never learns.

How do I break this cycle?

(Talking about it with her does NOT help. I have tried this many times but she never changes.)

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