You are at you favorite watering hole and you see two available men.
One is clearly middle aged but slim, dressed neatly and personable.
The other is in his mid twenties, a litle stout, dressed a little sloppy and just a tad pushy.
For the purpose of this exercise you get to choose one to entertain you for how ever long you like (I make no judgements here) .
If I haven't lost you already....which gentleman would you choose?