ohh cloudy days (what_is_written) wrote in thequestionclub,
ohh cloudy days

My Husband and I have been together for 7 years, married for 4. We are 26 years old.

Since I was a kid myself I have always known that I didn't want children. However others told me, and I told myself, that surely one day i would want them.

But I continued to not want them. I have told my husband this from the very beginning of our relationship. he always was on the same page as me, albeit with a mention or two of "Maybe someday, loooong after we have traveled" etc.

He has been talking about kids more and more and yesterday told me he was thinking the other day about us having a baby and that he wanted one. :O

The tick has never come for me. In fact after a rough two years and I think I want kids even less. I have anxiety, depression, and other issues I don't like to talk about. I don't want to be pregnant, alienated and out of control of my own body.

I am so afraid of how to deal with this. What would you do, TQC? Have you been in a similar situation? Please, any advice?
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