=^..^= (heycat) wrote in thequestionclub,
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out of state "friend"

I have a friend from out of state who likes to visit the state I live in because she went to college here. She comes back here because she loves it here and has a lot of friends here.

The last time she came to visit about a year ago, I happily asked her if she would like to stay at my place, because I have an extra fully furnished bedroom. She stayed with me for a week. From the moment she entered my home, she dropped off her suitcases and went out with her "best friends" (who took off the entire week to hang with her) and I didn't see her the entire time she stayed with me. She would come home in the wee hours of the morning and woke up after I left for work. After her hotel stay visit was over, she just put the key on the dining table and left. No thank you, no goodbye, no token of appreciation, no card, nothing. When I say nothing, I really mean nothing. She didn't spend a moment with me, I always come home after work, and would call her to see if she wanted to have dinner, but she was always busy with her best friends.

Anyhoo, that was done and over with and I decided to just brush it off and not lose a friendship over it so I just went on with my life. It took me a couple of months to get over it.

Now she's emailing me saying she will be visiting again soon and is asking if she could stay with me for a week. What would you do?
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