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(no subject) [Nov. 28th, 2016|07:04 pm]
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What is the most complex or difficult-to-read book you've ever read?

Preferably not something that's known to be super convoluted like Finnegans Wake or just something really long, but something that actually makes you think a lot.
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Excuse me, have we met before? [Nov. 28th, 2016|04:55 pm]
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So I've gone through phases of online chatting (like going in to chatrooms) to talk to strangers and make online friends, pretty much ever since we got the internet when I was growing up. At the very minimum of probably 9 years ago, there was one guy I befriended. We would use webcams and chat. Nothing pervy. We talked pretty frequently for a bit, and then he just started getting really odd and he just made me uncomfortable when we would talk. So I stopped talking to him. I deleted him off my messenger and that was that. Done. Honestly, forgot about the guy all together.

Years later, on that same messenger, I saw someone randomly added me. I recognized the name and couldn't quite place it. I began racking my brain and then it hit me it was that guy. I remembered cause he has one of the most common names spelled in a ridiculous way, and also a pretty unusual last name. I never re-added him. But just left it there in "friend request purgatory". Again.... forgot all about it.

Recently, I've been in chat rooms making friends again. Not too long ago I discovered this one particular chat room I've been going in. Maybe a year ago. So last night I was in the room and this guy started talking to me. I was enjoying our convo so we turned our webcams on so we could see the face we were talking to. When his cam opened. I thought to myself, "He kinda looks familiar, but I have NO CLUE why.". Didn't really make anything of it. Was really enjoying our conversation, so we added each other on skype to be able to talk more. When the name popped up when he added me I thought, "Why does that name sound so familiar?" I kept racking my brain, but again not mentioning it. And then It just popped into my head. So I went over to my email and looked at the chat part in it.... and there it is in the friend request purgatory. THE SAME NAME!

What the heck? It's the same dude! We haven't spoken in probably a decade. I have no idea if he even remembers me. What would you do if you were in this situation? Would you mention it and see if they remember you? Would you tell yourself that this person just made you uncomfortable years ago and cut off contact again? Been there, done that kind of thing. Or would you start fresh, and just see where it goes?

I'm just so curious how others would handle this situation. I don't know what I wanna do. lol
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(no subject) [Nov. 28th, 2016|07:22 pm]
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1. What's one subject or activity that interests you or that you enjoy being involved in?

2. In what ways do you involve yourself in it? How often?

3. What do you like about it?

4. How did you become interested in it?

5. Imagine that you're trying to get someone else interested or involved. How or where would you advise them to start? What resources would you point them toward?
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Monetary donations [Nov. 28th, 2016|04:41 pm]
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1. When and if you donate monetarily, do you leave your name, or do you tip anonymously? ex. when donating to a gofundme campaign
2. When and if you tip someone for their services, do you make sure they see you tipping them? ex. in a drive-thru
2a. Similarly, do you tip your server before you leave so that your server will see you again after you've already tipped them?

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This is ALT... right? [Nov. 28th, 2016|02:55 pm]
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Are you alt?

Alt right
Alt left
Ctl Alt Del
Alt alt damn spot
See alt. See alt run
Alt history
Alt in comments
Alt state of consciousness
Your momma is so alt...
Alt my problem
Kiss my alt
I am the alt man i am the walrus koo koo ka chew
It was the best of times it was the alt of times
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(no subject) [Nov. 28th, 2016|02:17 pm]
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[Current Location |fuzzy snowflake pants]
[mood |coldcold]
[music |The Nightmare Before Christmas]

My hands are always cold. During the winter I wear thick mitten outside and even mittens inside. So.....

Poll #2058615 Body Temp

How does your body temp run?

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Japan! [Nov. 28th, 2016|10:13 am]
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Hello, TQC. I'll be spending my Christmas vacation in Japan. I'll be staying in Tokyo and Gunma for two weeks. Any recommendations of things to see and do there? 
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(no subject) [Nov. 27th, 2016|09:35 pm]
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[Current Location |comfy chair]
[mood |coldcold]
[music |Keanu]

Are you good with flirting?
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(no subject) [Nov. 27th, 2016|09:07 pm]
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A dilemma....
After a brief relapse I go back to treatment. I meet a girl and fall completely in love, the unselfish, want to spend the rest of my life, will do anything to ensure happiness.... and she's 5 months pregnant. I knew this from the beginning. What I didn't know is I would fall in love with her. We complement each other in a way I am certain I wouldn't find in any other. We are now living together.... So far it is everything I thought it would be. Has anyone had any experience any advice

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Dating the "Nice Guy" [Nov. 27th, 2016|12:59 pm]
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[mood |confusedconfused]

I've recently turned 30 and been dating a really nice guy for the last two years. Just like everyone else, I've had a dysfunctional history of dating the "wrong guy", bad boys, assholes, and the emotionally unavailable. I am very attracted to men who are outgoing, confident, and charming. They are my weakness. However, the guy I've been dating is very shy and introverted, which tends to drive me nuts. I am the dominant one in this relationship, whereas in the past I've always dated dominant guys. The problem I am having is that I am bored and wondering if the "grass is greener", and constantly wondering if there is a guy better suited for me where we have more in common.

Before I met this guy I was in a serious relationship with a man who was not faithful, dysfunctional, abusive towards me, etc but I was so "in love" and tried to make him happy, even though I never felt good enough. I finally saw sense and ended the relationship four years later. I was then single for another four or five years with a slew of first dates that never went anywhere. And finally I met the "nice guy". Let's call him Chris.
Chris is committed, devoted, loyal, loves me unconditionally, and safe. He will move heaven and Earth for me. I've prayed for a guy like Chris and know nice guys are HARD to find, but the problem I'm having is I don't know if he's the "one". It feels nice to be treated so well after all the pain and misery I have endured from my former dating life, but it's not enough. I am bored and find myself wanting to change him all the time. This isn't fair on Chris and I should be more accepting. The main problem is that we don't have a lot in common, I'm not that sexually attracted to him, and sometimes find him boring. I've struggled with this for so long because I fear that one day like 10 years from now when I'm 40 and still single, I'll think back to when I let a good man get away. And of course, I know the guys I tend to date are no good for me either.

So has anyone overcome this or know what to do in such a predicament?

Our main issue is that we don't have a lot in common. I feel like I have to force him into social situations or travel. The only thing we have in common is motorcycles and we have travelled together on motorbikes. However, I always wanted to be in a relationship where I share the experiences with a partner. I know you can't do everything with your partner but it would be nice if we had something other than motorbikes. I'm not sure what to do because he is a great partner and we both don't want kids (which is a big deal) and hard to find.
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(no subject) [Nov. 26th, 2016|02:12 pm]
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Do you think people who espouse particularly flawed beliefs, such as racists and flat-earthers, know they're wrong deep down and just really want to believe they're right? Or are they totally convinced that they are right?
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(no subject) [Nov. 26th, 2016|11:04 pm]
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[mood |tiredtired]

It is well-known that subjectively, time flows faster and slower in different situations.

When do you feel that the time flows fast, and when does it slow down? Do you prefer slow time or fast time?

A good friend and I both prefer the slow time, but our understanding of it is the opposite.
For me, time is slow when I have little to do, when, like I put it, "I have time to hear myself think".
And for her, the more she has to do, the "slower" the time flows. (This results in interesting conflicts between our schedules and difficulty to meet, but it's another story.)
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What's it called? [Nov. 26th, 2016|08:11 pm]
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Anybody knows what's this "extra long hoodie" this guy in Istanbul was rocking called?

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(no subject) [Nov. 25th, 2016|06:01 pm]
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[Current Location |sweatpants]
[mood |curious ]
[music |washing machine]

I left FB and decided to trying blogging on LJ again,so........

How are you people?
Why keeps you coming back to LJ?
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Car accident question. [Nov. 24th, 2016|02:26 pm]
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I've personally never been in a car wreck the 15 years I have been driving until yesterday.

I was stopped in a highway for the lady in front of me turning left to her driveway, the woman behind me didn't pay attention to either of us, swerved into oncoming traffic, and tbe car behind her creamed into me around 55 mph. 

My car is destroyed in the back but the front is fine. My car is only worth 8k at this given time. I owe 6. I have gap insurance.

My question is what is more than likely going to happen? Will I be compensated what I owe or its worth? I also am hurt I went forward so hard when she hit me but with my belt on I came back into my chair so hard I broke it. I have whiplash, neck sorain, and a messed up right shoulder. She has insurance as do I.
Honest, I don't want to sue I just know the steps to have a vehicle again when I shouldn't have to go threw  having to owe a crap ton on one again!

Has this happened to anyone? Any recommendations on what I should do? I have made a claim due to the holiday no one coming out until the latest Monday. Again, only vehicle I have, had.

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(no subject) [Nov. 24th, 2016|01:16 pm]
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Does anybody know how to download an entire Photobucket? I know you can download individual albums, but I have quite a few of them. Also, anything animated has to be downloaded seperately, and I have quite a few gifs.
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(no subject) [Nov. 24th, 2016|12:54 pm]
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Wait, was that today?
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(no subject) [Nov. 23rd, 2016|04:14 pm]
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What podcasts do you listen to?
I've been listening to My Favorite Murder quite a bit lately.
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Fake names [Nov. 23rd, 2016|02:58 pm]
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I am at a coffee shop and they want my name.
I want to give a spurious yet humorous name.
What name should i use??

pumpkin spice latte for Harry Wadsack...Harry Wadsack..

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(no subject) [Nov. 22nd, 2016|04:37 pm]
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If you had to literally act out the last figurative statement you made, how would it go?
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