mine recently left me with quite a few words and i was devastated. i think without any explanation would be torture, i already was manipulated into believing everything was my fault while we were together and my insecurity was at an all time high so i wouldn't handle it well.
I'm sure it wasn't all your fault, relationships are a two way street. In the end you'll probably be better off without that person, because his or her actions are the actions of someone who is not very nice.
Flip motherfucking shit. We have a home and a child and bills and car payments together, so he's not going aaaaaannnyyywhere.
Pretty much this. I would track him down so fast. If he tried to evade me you better believe I'm getting lawyers involved.
Mom must had sent him to jesus camp. Its going to be a long hard winter...
If they left me without a word, I believe I would be speechless.
Otherwise I would contact my congressman!
I'm not saying that it is aliens, but it is aliens.
i would be upset but it has happened before so i can predict an epic sad mess for myself for a few weeks
I'd be livid and quite concerned
I would be.. absolutely broken.
Confused. Horribly, horribly depressed. Crying nonstop.
Do what I could to make him financially responsible for his child. Try to survive.
|From: bree |
2012-12-08 04:17 am (UTC)
Extremely upset, but I would have to push that aside and keep on with life. Being a single parent sucks but I was getting along just fine before him and I'll be okay after.
You sound like a strong person, kudos to you.
I would be so so sad and upset. I would also probably smash things and have a freak out session. We're getting married in may after 11 years so if he leaves now without a word (or even with many words) I would be devastated.
I would be devastated, speechless but with racing thoughts... it would truly gut me. I'd call his parents and be like "Your son has lost his marbles and I need your help." We've overcome more than our fair share of issues, including the loss of a planned child mid-pregnancy. He'd better have a damn good reason for even entertaining the idea of splitting up. I could go on without him and be happy (eventually), but all the history we have is not something you throw away on a whim, without explanation and serious discussion.
Considering how hard we had to work to get where we are...I'd be shocked and devastated. We've been through a lot of stuff together.
Shocked, confused, depressed
Get another hypothetical SO.
I'd be absolutely devastated. Thinking about it gives me a bad feeling in the pit of my stomach, I can't imagine.
I would be absolutely horrified, especially given that we're married and he is currently making 100% of our income. Not only would I be emotionally wrecked, I would have nowhere to live and no way to pay the bills. It would pretty much destroy me, honestly.
Ditto everything you said. Plus I moved countries for my husband, so I left behind all the friends and family who I would normally rely on in this scenario.
I'd wonder how the fuck I'm going to support my kids and where we're going to live, because there's no way we'd be affording this house without my husband's income. I'm afraid we'd have to move in with my mother, and I desperately wouldn't want to do that.
I would be crushed and seriously confused. I would wonder what could have possibly happened to make him decide he didn't want to spend forever wit me anymore. I would also wonder where the fuck I was going to live and what would happen to our ferrets!
i'd be really worried about him and probably call his mom or something to make sure he was okay
I think I'd die on the spot.
Without a word? Upset. But I kind of want him to leave me cuz I am unhappy. I tried to leave - his misery was too horrible to bear so I stayed...
Yikes. You should think about what you just said. Making someone sad isn't a reason not to leave an unhappy relationship.
I would probably text and call them a zillion times until she hopefully would respond so I could figure out what the fuck was happening and why. And if she hung up, I'd call again. And if she kept on not responding I would call her parents and try and get them to get her to call me. I would want to know why. IF she did NOT answer any of my texts I would probably be lost and depresse for a very very long time and do almost nothing. Probably feeling a full range of emotions-anger, depression, sadness, confusion, numb, shock etc etc. I would call my therapist stat! Emergency!
Edited at 2012-12-08 07:25 am (UTC)