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If your SO suddenly left you, without a word, how would you react?
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[User Picture]From: gabardinedreams
2012-12-08 03:42 am (UTC)

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mine recently left me with quite a few words and i was devastated. i think without any explanation would be torture, i already was manipulated into believing everything was my fault while we were together and my insecurity was at an all time high so i wouldn't handle it well.
[User Picture]From: melontree
2012-12-08 04:47 pm (UTC)

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:(
I'm sure it wasn't all your fault, relationships are a two way street. In the end you'll probably be better off without that person, because his or her actions are the actions of someone who is not very nice.
[User Picture]From: the_pyre
2012-12-08 03:46 am (UTC)

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Flip motherfucking shit. We have a home and a child and bills and car payments together, so he's not going aaaaaannnyyywhere.
[User Picture]From: kill_inhibition
2012-12-08 04:46 am (UTC)

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Pretty much this. I would track him down so fast. If he tried to evade me you better believe I'm getting lawyers involved.
[User Picture]From: vodkabeforenoon
2012-12-08 03:47 am (UTC)

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Mom must had sent him to jesus camp. Its going to be a long hard winter...
[User Picture]From: mmmrorschach
2012-12-08 03:49 am (UTC)

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If they left me without a word, I believe I would be speechless.

Otherwise I would contact my congressman!
[User Picture]From: girlredefined
2012-12-08 07:29 am (UTC)

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I'm not saying that it is aliens, but it is aliens.
[User Picture]From: ghoulia
2012-12-08 03:49 am (UTC)

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i would be upset but it has happened before so i can predict an epic sad mess for myself for a few weeks
[User Picture]From: schexyschteve
2012-12-08 03:49 am (UTC)

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I'd be livid and quite concerned
[User Picture]From: verygwen
2012-12-08 04:04 am (UTC)

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I would be.. absolutely broken.
[User Picture]From: un_attra
2012-12-08 04:05 am (UTC)

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Confused. Horribly, horribly depressed. Crying nonstop.
[User Picture]From: lutine
2012-12-08 04:15 am (UTC)

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Do what I could to make him financially responsible for his child. Try to survive.
[User Picture]From: bree
2012-12-08 04:17 am (UTC)

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Extremely upset, but I would have to push that aside and keep on with life. Being a single parent sucks but I was getting along just fine before him and I'll be okay after.
[User Picture]From: judaskiss
2012-12-08 04:32 am (UTC)

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You sound like a strong person, kudos to you.
[User Picture]From: mercurywingspan
2012-12-08 04:37 am (UTC)

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I would be so so sad and upset. I would also probably smash things and have a freak out session. We're getting married in may after 11 years so if he leaves now without a word (or even with many words) I would be devastated.
[User Picture]From: parapraxess
2012-12-08 04:42 am (UTC)

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I would be devastated, speechless but with racing thoughts... it would truly gut me. I'd call his parents and be like "Your son has lost his marbles and I need your help." We've overcome more than our fair share of issues, including the loss of a planned child mid-pregnancy. He'd better have a damn good reason for even entertaining the idea of splitting up. I could go on without him and be happy (eventually), but all the history we have is not something you throw away on a whim, without explanation and serious discussion.
[User Picture]From: r0ck_y0ur_s0ul
2012-12-08 04:45 am (UTC)

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Considering how hard we had to work to get where we are...I'd be shocked and devastated. We've been through a lot of stuff together.
[User Picture]From: madeofsequins
2012-12-08 04:52 am (UTC)

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I'd be devastated.
[User Picture]From: reliklaerek
2012-12-08 05:06 am (UTC)

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Shocked, confused, depressed
[User Picture]From: mlledesade
2012-12-08 05:08 am (UTC)

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Get another hypothetical SO.
[User Picture]From: emily_thegreat
2012-12-08 05:11 am (UTC)

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I'd be absolutely devastated. Thinking about it gives me a bad feeling in the pit of my stomach, I can't imagine.
[User Picture]From: oh_honestly_
2012-12-08 05:12 am (UTC)

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I would be absolutely horrified, especially given that we're married and he is currently making 100% of our income. Not only would I be emotionally wrecked, I would have nowhere to live and no way to pay the bills. It would pretty much destroy me, honestly.
[User Picture]From: dragonkiri
2012-12-08 08:55 pm (UTC)

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Ditto everything you said. Plus I moved countries for my husband, so I left behind all the friends and family who I would normally rely on in this scenario.
[User Picture]From: idemandjustice
2012-12-08 05:23 am (UTC)

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I'd wonder how the fuck I'm going to support my kids and where we're going to live, because there's no way we'd be affording this house without my husband's income. I'm afraid we'd have to move in with my mother, and I desperately wouldn't want to do that.
[User Picture]From: poppytoads
2012-12-08 05:46 am (UTC)

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I would be crushed and seriously confused. I would wonder what could have possibly happened to make him decide he didn't want to spend forever wit me anymore. I would also wonder where the fuck I was going to live and what would happen to our ferrets!
[User Picture]From: kampfbaby
2012-12-08 06:08 am (UTC)

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i'd be really worried about him and probably call his mom or something to make sure he was okay
[User Picture]From: sblmnldrknss
2012-12-08 06:16 am (UTC)

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I think I'd die on the spot.
[User Picture]From: opium
2012-12-08 07:00 am (UTC)

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Without a word? Upset. But I kind of want him to leave me cuz I am unhappy. I tried to leave - his misery was too horrible to bear so I stayed...
[User Picture]From: melontree
2012-12-08 04:51 pm (UTC)

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Yikes. You should think about what you just said. Making someone sad isn't a reason not to leave an unhappy relationship.
[User Picture]From: wristtattoos
2012-12-08 07:18 am (UTC)

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I'd be devastated.
[User Picture]From: phronistes
2012-12-08 07:21 am (UTC)

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This in a nutshell.
[User Picture]From: phronistes
2012-12-08 07:20 am (UTC)

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I would probably text and call them a zillion times until she hopefully would respond so I could figure out what the fuck was happening and why. And if she hung up, I'd call again. And if she kept on not responding I would call her parents and try and get them to get her to call me. I would want to know why. IF she did NOT answer any of my texts I would probably be lost and depresse for a very very long time and do almost nothing. Probably feeling a full range of emotions-anger, depression, sadness, confusion, numb, shock etc etc. I would call my therapist stat! Emergency!

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