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How do you know when you are in love?

Serious/non-serious.
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[User Picture]From: sin_and_repent
2012-12-08 01:25 am (UTC)

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For me it is getting that butterflies in the stomach feeling whenever you are around them/talking to them/thinking about them. That is my serious answer.

Non-serious: He doesn't abandon you at a restaurant after drinks and dinner and leave you with paying the whole tab.
[User Picture]From: verygwen
2012-12-08 01:34 am (UTC)

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I know I'm in love when all my thoughts of the future include the person I've fallen in love with.
[User Picture]From: gabardinedreams
2012-12-08 01:43 am (UTC)

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i don't know exactly how i knew.. but i remember initially feeling very overwhelmed that i loved him. like it was some big weight following me around. and until i got the nerve to say it (which was ridiculous, he had told me he loved me months before) nothing felt right.

& what i'm curious about is when i get to stop loving him.. will it just fade away? will i notice? blah.

Edited at 2012-12-08 01:48 am (UTC)
[User Picture]From: chaostrophy
2012-12-08 06:20 pm (UTC)

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I think you'll wake up one day with that same weight lifted and everything will start to feel right again.
[User Picture]From: saintwithasw0rd
2012-12-08 01:47 am (UTC)

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I knew I was in love when I saw my husband's bad side and yet I still saw myself growing old with him.

I knew I was in love when my husband showed love and affection toward my disabled mother.

I knew I was in love when a deaf elderly woman fell outside our apartment building and he ran to her to help her, face shrouded in fear and compassion.

I knew I was in love when I saw how much he loved me.
[User Picture]From: handsunderhips
2012-12-08 02:37 am (UTC)

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awww <3
[User Picture]From: saintwithasw0rd
2012-12-08 02:51 am (UTC)

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lol
[User Picture]From: mzkitteh
2012-12-08 01:50 am (UTC)

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I don't think I've ever really been in love before. I hear it's pretty nice though.
[User Picture]From: salamandertoast
2012-12-08 02:02 am (UTC)

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the Muses from Hercules keep singing in the background
[User Picture]From: ellelelle
2012-12-08 05:14 am (UTC)

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that would be fantastic.
[User Picture]From: un_attra
2012-12-08 02:24 am (UTC)

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I can tell that person anything without the fear of judgement and I can see a secure future with this person.
[User Picture]From: wakiebakie
2012-12-08 02:35 am (UTC)

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When I can be totally myself and he still loves me
[User Picture]From: pastorlenny
2012-12-08 02:58 am (UTC)

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When I spend my damn money.
[User Picture]From: nynaeve_sedai
2012-12-08 03:49 am (UTC)

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Non-serious: SPARKLES. And a musical montage.

Serious: I knew that no matter what, I was in this. It wasn't butterflies in the stomach (I didn't get them with my DH. In fact, I knew I was going to marry him before I even 'felt' in love with him. He was a great guy, still is, and I knew that he was worth investing my heart and soul into). It was just... I knew I was in it for the long haul, come hell or high water. We got married soon after :)
[User Picture]From: emily_thegreat
2012-12-08 05:23 am (UTC)

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Srs: As cheesy as it sounds, the first time I saw my SO in person it was like a little voice inside me saying, "Oh - there you are. I've been waiting for you." and I knew he was going to be someone very important to me. His face is the one I want to see before I go to sleep and first thing in the morning. When something good, bad, silly, or totally mundane happens, he's the first person I want to tell.

Nonsrs: I don't bug him when he's watching football. That's love.
[User Picture]From: opium
2012-12-08 07:02 am (UTC)

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Once the initial infatuation period is over and you see all sides of a person and still love them.
[User Picture]From: morrigan716
2012-12-08 05:25 pm (UTC)

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People told me for years, "You'll just know." They were right.