smokeswirls (smokeswirls) wrote in thequestionclub,

I met this guy on OkCupid back in March, and we've been chatting online ever since then on a pretty regular basis. We've just recently finally started talking about meeting in person. The complicated part? We live in cities that are 45 minutes to an hour apart.

Because he said he traveled to my city for the past two consecutive weekends, he said he'd prefer that I come to his city. I've never been to his city before whereas he's been to mine many times, so I'm unfamiliar with his area.

Is that fair, or should he be coming to MY city given the circumstances I described above? Also, if he were "chivalrous" wouldn't/shouldn't HE travel the first time to see the girl?
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