I've had my eyebrows threaded. I get em done every couple of months because the threading lady is better at shaping my eyebrows than I am. The original threading lasts about three weeks but I can maintain it pretty well by plucking.
If there's real danger of fire, and if I were not very fond of my neighbors, I'd turn em in. If I really liked my neighbors, though, I probably wouldn't.
So I don't have PTSD and I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. I am so sorry, and thank you for your service.
However, I have a fireworks phobia. I don't mind the lights, but I have a really hard time with the noise and sometimes it gives me panic attacks. I've dealt with this in the past by going to the movies during peak firework time, or doing some really thorough grocery shopping.
My most recent solution has been a really good pair of noise-canceling headphones, the kind that airport employees wear.
Do your neighbors know your issues? I would probably bust them if I were in your situation.
Never been threaded, but I've thought about it.
I'd turn them in especially if there's a burn ban/fireworks ban in place. It's a safety issue.
Can you go to your local VFW on the 4th or treat yourself to dinner and a movie away from the noise?
I've had my eyebrows threaded. I loved it.
Id call the non-emergency police line and anonymously notify them that the neighbours are lighting fireworks, yes.
Stay inside and listen to music with noise cancelling headphones. Or take your ipod/mp3 player outside with the headphones.
I would turn them in if there was a fire works ban because of dryness. That's just a matter of safety! Some pretty fireworks isn't worth burning down an entire neighborhood!
Yes, turn them in.
The red necked asswholes that live 'round me set off explosive and propulsive fireworks all night long. Sparkler and shower ones are legal, the others are not. Unfortunately, law enforcement don't care until someone gets hurt.
Yeah, I would call the cops.
As in, call the cops on my neighbors? No, I wouldn't. If I get along with them, I would just ask them politely not to go too crazy with the fireworks. I would only call the cops if they were getting really carried away and it started to become a safety issue
No, I wouldn't turn them in.
I would probably deal with it by going somewhere where there wasn't going to be fireworks, or there were going to be minimal fireworks. I would remove myself from the situation or do what I could to minimize its effect on me.
I have never had anything threaded.
I'd turn em in. We *just* now got rain but they aren't lifting the burn bans. I sure as hell don't want my shit going up in flames so some assholes can have 10 minutes of fun.
I love eyebrow threading!
I would turn them in.
If the fire danger is real, yes, turn them in. To me that comes even before my PTSD, because it's everyone's homes at risk. (there was no way that was grammatically correct, sigh).
i would go talk to my neighbors. Not in a threatening way, but let them know that you've been more than polite these past years but this year the heat wave + your condition is gonna make it unbearable. I mean if theyre nice, I think they should understand? And if they refuse, then yes I would turn them in.
i want to! because im sick of tweezers.
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Call the cops. Are you in Kentucky? Same exact thing is going on in my town/county. Drought, epic heat, fireworks ban...and dumbasses.
(I'm also a US Vet, Navy, with PTSD but mine's not combat related)
In Indiana, and thank you for your service. I also have PTSD that is not combat-related (and that condition is the one the government is paying me for).
I would call the cops on them in a heartbeat. Not only would I want to avoid any issues with my PTSD, I'd also rather not have my hosue catch on fire.
I'd try talking to them first. Going to the police is a big step, and could strain relationships. If it's necessary, it's necessary, but that wouldn't be my first choice.
The Xanax might be an okay solution, if it's only once or twice a year and you're doing it with doctor approval (or at the very least have spoken to a pharmacist/nurse/etc.) I don't know what you're going through because I don't have noise-related PTSD, and I'm sorry that happened. I wouldn't suggest using alcohol to get through it, especially with another med. Benzos are actually pretty safe for most people for short-term use; addiction is unlikely to be a risk if your use is very infrequent. They're not like barbituates where dosages have to be carefully measured to avoid an OD. I was on Xanax for about 3 weeks on a low dose and had no withdrawal issues; taking them for 1 day isn't going to induce withdrawal.
I've been prescribed Xanax for about 24 years now D:
Well, it's still not really a dangerous drug when taken as prescribed. The issue is that if you and your doctor wanted you to discontinue, you'd have to do it very carefully and slowly or you risk some bad withdrawal problems. If you've been on it 24 years without abusing it then I don't think abusing it is much of a danger for you.
That sucks, I'm sorry. I like the suggestions about going to a movie, and also noise cancelling headphones. Better than self-medicating.
I am going to look for some noise-canceling headphones asap. I don't know if I can get over the hyper-vigilance caused by the PTSD enough to wear them though :/
Do you have pets? I've read a bunch of stories about veterans with PTSD adopting specially trained dogs to help with their anxiety. Not that you can get one before tomorrow, but have you looked into any of those programs?
I have two sled dogs but the fireworks make them nervous as well (so if anything it makes me more anxious than ever!). I hadn't heard about the specially-trained dogs for veterans with PTSD but I'm going to look into it, thanks!
i'd definitely turn them in. its a serious safety issue since theres been a drought. i would have no compunctions about calling the cops on them. theres no ban here (besides the normal ban on fireworks) and i called the cops when my neighbors set one off so big/loud that it rattled my dishes.
get noise-canceling headphones. self-medicate maybe. maybe for next year take a vacation out of the country...or even just out of town. if you find some small B&B in a small tourist-trap town....theres less likely to be fireworks or at least fewer "big" ones. you could also plan this trip to states/locations where fireworks would be less likely. EX: illinois has a law banning stuff bigger than bottle rockets. but iirc, MO does not...so people in east st louis just go across the river and stock up. people who live 2 hours from the border....tend not to bother to go buy the big/illegal ones, and if they do...theyve spent so much money on gas they buy fewer of them.
so, go to a place thats not very densely populated, and in a location where fireworks are illegal AND hard to get ahold of.
Yup I'd turn them in.
idk, get some noise canceling headphones (or turn the volume on your tv up really loud) and have a movie marathon. That really sucks :(
I have not. My eyebrows are naturally very sparse so there has been no need.
Hell yes, I would turn them in.
Please be careful mixing Xanax and alcohol!
I have. I go to an Indian shop in town. They do a really nice job.
Sounds like how we helped our dog handle it as well, gave him a sedative. I'm sorry you're going through this.
Yes, I prefer it over waxing.
Ugh, fireworks freak me out even without PTSD. I would call the police for sure. I try to just stay inside with the windows closed and put a fan on beside me and watch a movie really loudly to cancel out as much of the outside noise as I can.
A girl I used to work with taught me how to do it, so I thread my own eyebrows every once in a while.
Yes, I would turn them in.
is there somewhere you could go and get away from the festivities? Like camping, amish country, a quiet b&b, go to a non-action movie?
I love the idea of camping but it's just so dry around here, we couldn't even have a campfire or anything :/
Thank you for your service.
If they were out using them, without a doubt call the cops. Everyone's safety is a priority.
After the fires we have had here, I would not hesitate to turn them in. No way am I going to risk some dumb ass burning the whole neighbourhood down.
Well, I'd sure as hell turn them in just for the threat of fire alone. Let them get fined. We have a burning ban on right now, also, and I'm curious to see how it goes.
As for coping with it... That's tough. Maybe go see some movies. Theaters are usually pretty soundproof.
When I went home for the 4th after being in Afghanistan for 2 years it freaked me the fuck out.
Let me know how this goes.....I'll have to deal with it myself.
IF you can go camping in a national park for the day???
PS the cops are gonna be too busy to do anything
sad but true
I would love to go camping but because of the fire ban we couldn't even have a campfire :/ something to consider for next year though!
Several people have suggested noise-canceling headphones but I am hyper-vigilant due to the PTSD and so I don't think the headphones would help. The VA gives me all the Xanax I want so I guess that's going to be my best option again this year.
Yeah I'd turn them in. Small time budget fireworks are dangerous and lame. Do you live someplace where you could potentially get away to a quiet place nearby. Camping in the middle of nowhere sort of thing?
My sister used to have a farm on a dirt road and that was the quietest place I've ever been. Too bad she sold it, because that is where I would go :/
Be sure to hose down your house periodically throughout the day and night of the 4th.
I thought of that, because I don't want these fools around here burning the place down :( the whole neighborhood is a tinderbox right now