I hate my job. I cry before I go to work and I cry when I get off work. Feel free to tell me to quit being a baby, I don't even care. I'll just be sad anyway, so why not?
At this point quitting is not an option so I can't do that.

We're having a barbeque next weekend and my husband is inviting his class of soldiers to come. Should I invite the people I work with in the hopes that maybe we'll get along better at work, or should I say screw them they can't ruin my weekend, too?

Bonus question: The house we just moved into has a pool. The previous renters let it sit forever. The pool guys are coming out and dumping TONS of chemicals in it to clean it, but they're keeping the same water as before in the pool. They say it'll be safe, but it just seems SO GROSS to me. Would you feel comfortable swimming in that water?